I totally agree about Lana's behaviour, which I found reprehensible in this episode, and yes, I too have liked her a lot more this season, so it was disappointing to see her act so amazingly selfishly in the wake of her ex boyfriend's father's death. Somehow she managed to make it all about her. For starters, there is no comparison between what she has been through and what Clark is going through. And telling him he needs to talk about it and all her other "advice", god, is like, so off the scale out of order, that I just wanted him to deck her. He's grieving. He'll do it without you, thank you very much. DEAL WITH IT.