Main question being why Kara got up and married Anders - that just doesn't make sense to me. Not even fear of intimacy makes it make sense??
Wrong person to ask, I'm afraid! Kara baffles me. My go-to girls for Kara meta are wisteria_ and daybreak777. There are a few things that do help make a bit more sense of it: in Razor, Lee as commander ordered Kara to sacrifice her life for the mission. So while they're still in the same chain of command, there's always that danger that they'll be in a situation that demands something similar again. Also, Kara fans tell me Kara still had guilt about shooting Lee and has a deep-seated fear of reliving her Zak experience (i.e. being responsible for his death). I guess those things add an edge to her fears.

the infidelity to Dee/Anders makes me sad, but I have to admit I got all warm at heart at the end of the episode when Lee says he's missed Kara - awww :o(
Hee. I'm glad it made you 'aww'. It was Kara's 'misshed' that made me 'aww' because I'm so totally in Lee's perspective. It seemed too good to be true first time round, and still makes me glow now, on about the 10th rewatch.

Roslin and Adama are cute, arent't they?! With the getting stoned and flirty. Hee!